Thursday, May 29, 2008

A non-pictorial update

So the title probably got some grumbles since the pictures are definitely a hit with Ava's public, but Ava's been home for 6 months now, so I thought an update might be in order. A lot of people ask how she adjusted, how she's doing developmentally, and things like that, so here's an answer. Everything is really great. Really! I don't even think there was much of an adjustment period for Ava. From the moment she was in our arms for good in Almaty she has seemed totally at ease with us. For a while, she would only go to sleep with Amber and she still only wants mommy when she wakes up in the middle of the night (what a great baby), but she runs to us when she goes bump or when something scares her, which is just an amazing feeling.
Ava is very friendly, but also cautious around strangers, especially big groups of strange faces. She remembers faces and people very well though, so even people who get to visit less than regularly she is happy to see.
She's been fairly healthy, a few little colds but nothing major. She's growing really well as you all can see, and her hair is really growing. The curls are especially amazing when she gets done with her bath. She's still mostly babbling, but says a few words now and then. She loves to read too. The books are typically upside down and she starts in the back, but DaVinci used mirror writing, so I'm guessing she's brilliant too. I believe she's reading in Latin as well. She also babbles to me when I get home or call from work. I just agree, say "really?" or "sounds great!". Of course she's probably describing how she's going to kiss boys when she's 3, how much she loves country music, and other things that daddy would find less than pleasing, but what I don't know may kill me eventually.
Teeth are still finding their way to the surface, but that doesn't really stop her from eating and chewing. She eats pretty much everything now with some odd exceptions. Pureed peas? Great! Real peas? Not so Great. Pureed banana? Great! Real banana? Until yesterday - not a chance - much more fun as a toy. She walks (runs), dances, climbs whatever she can, and has recently discovered tippy toes. Very cute.
Truthfully, I think the bigger adjustment has been for Amber & I than Ava. Free time is now that brief period between Ava going to sleep and us passing out. Baby muscles are growing. Amber is even entering an arm wrestling competition (Yes, that is a joke - or is it???). But who would've thought that watching a one year old push her little stroller around the house could be so captivating? Really watching anything she does - sleeping, eating, playing, walking (I could go on but I won't) is now our favorite pastime. Watching her and listening to her is too precious to describe. I wish I had more time to just watch her play and explore.
So yes we are slightly obsessed with our daughter, completely in love, and thrilled to be parents. And to avoid complaints, here's a picture - she loves her boots:

8 comments:

Trudi said...

Jason - thanks for the update. Ava is one of those babies I have followed for a long time now -- and I just KNEW she would thrive in your home. You have a very precious child (which of course you know) and even those of us 3,000 miles away smile as we see her blossom in your love. It is a joy. All the best to the 3 of you.

Karen, Glenn, Allie, Max, and Sam said...

What a wonderful update. We have followed your story for a long time, and it is so kind of you to provide a great written update. We hope to have our little guy home within the next month (from Ust), and it is exciting to be able to read about someone who has traveled this path before us. Oh, and as you already know, she is beautiful!!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for the input, it's like being there too! You three are a wonderful, loving family! And thanks for the picture also! So cute!! and Precious!! Love, Cindy

McMary said...

She is truly beautiful and the update on your family is great to hear. It is exciting to hear these stories while I wait--thanks.

Susan said...

What a great update, DAd!
She is just so cute, and i agree with Trudi-Ava is just the perfect child for you guys and it seems like you have all bonded so well and so easily as a family!

she is really sweet. :)

Sonya said...

It is wonderful to see Ava thriving and doing so well. I love to keep tabs on all of Nick's old friends from Group 2. She is such a beautiful little girl!

Sonya

Anonymous said...

you tricked us! you said no pictures but squeezed one in anyway - thank you so much! We love to hear about Ava - anything we can get! We just imagine her doing all these things. Especially her babbling in Latin! :) She really is so captivating and so beautiful! We love her so much! And of course we love you guys too!
Love,
Uncle Puck and Auntie Amber

Anonymous said...

Jason,
That was a beautiful description of being a parent and love for your child!! Ava is so fortunate to have parents that love her so much! Can't wait to meet her and see you guys at the convention.
Love, Tara Brooks

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