Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Proud Parents!

We went to court today, and we were approved!!!!! Ava is officially ours (technically she will be after the governments 15 day waiting period, but that’s just a formality) and we are thrilled. The most beautiful little person I could ever have imagined will be home with us in 3-4 weeks. She’s very excited to meet you all and to get to see her new home. It’s kind of a mixed emotion time for us right now. The official part is done and she’s ours which is wonderful, but we’re also only seeing her for a few more hours today and then we must leave, which is very sad. At least I hope we will leave. A rather dense fog has just settled on the city, so we’re all kind of hoping our flight to Almaty is ok.

-Jason

After court we had a party at the orphanage with our group, the translator, the director of the orphanage and the babies’ pediatrician. We had juices, meats (including horse meat), cheeses, cake, candies and tea. You can ask Jason about the horse meat…I couldn’t eat it! Anyway, it was very nice and we gave them gifts afterwards. We are truly grateful to all the people who have helped us get our Ava that we were happy to give them the gifts we brought. We have one more visit today at 4:00pm and then we have to say goodbye. We will bring lots of tissues with us. We also bring gifts for the caregivers and give them cakes to have on their breaks. We are so relieved to have court over and be officially Ava’s parents! What a strange feeling this is…we are no longer a couple we are now a family!

-Amber

Monday, October 29, 2007

Interesting Day

Yesterday we had a wonderful visit with our Ava in the morning. She was smiling, playing, even squeaking a bit today. She is so intent on exploring everything in the room every day. If she sees other toys, she must check them out. If she sees other people come in, she watches them to make sure they are ok. But she still looks for us the most, and seems more and more relaxed with us each time we are with her. She also enjoyed shaking off little cups we put on her little head.

We are both very sad that there will only be 2 more visits with her before we start the trip home.

The interesting part of the day started at 3 when we had our meeting with the MOE. There were 2 people asking questions, the 2 of us, and our Coordinator in the room. The first question was “What is the air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?” to which I asked, “What do you mean; an African swallow or a European swallow?” (this was not really asked - it is merely a meager attempt at being funny!) It all went downhill from there, but we still got the ok, or so we think. Actually, the questions were different for all 3 families, and some were a little surprising, but nothing too strange and we did ok. In fact, we didn’t realize it was over until Larissa told us that it was time to go. Apparently they tell you if they find something wrong or don’t like the answers, and we heard none of that, so our first meeting has been a success. Meeting 2, in court with a judge, will be Tuesday at 9 AM. Then we have a party at the orphanage (assuming all goes ok), another visit, a brief break, and then it’s on to the airport to begin the trip home.

One last thing is that the phone line in our apartment is no longer working correctly, so this may be the last update for a few days. That’s also why there are no pictures. Sorry!!!

Saturday, October 27, 2007

Our Sleepy Ava

Today we went to the baby house for our visit. They seem to be getting shorter every day. She did have a little tumble when she was pulling herself up on the chairs and cried for about a minute but I picked her up and she quickly stopped crying and wanted to play more. She is such a good natured baby! After she tired herself out playing she fell asleep in my arms. It was so sweet to see her little face so content and still. Although, she had to see what was going on in the room up until the very last minute before she fell asleep, that’s why she’s facing out. She has only fallen asleep for us twice, once for Jason and now for me. :)

After that, we went to the notary and signed about nine documents for court. Then we walked to the store, relaxed and went out to dinner at the Rainbow restaurant. They have an English menu, but only one, so five people had to share the menu. It worked out and the food was excellent. I had chicken with vegetables in a paper-thin omelet and rice, the seasonings were great. Jason had a beef dish with spices in a cream-type sauce and rice. We also ordered a $30 bottle of wine that tasted like it was worth about $5. Although, it did start to taste better the more we drank! Then, before we left two people started to sing on a small stage. It was Karaoke but they were obviously hired to sing. They were really good!
Here are some pictures from our visit with Ava.




Friday, October 26, 2007

A foreboding day

The daredevil within Ava was unleashed today. It was a calm day, like most any other day. We sat on the small chairs in the playroom, Ava on my lap facing me. I was holding her sides and we were playing a little. Suddenly, she flung herself backwards and hung upside down off the end of my knees – and loved it. She would stay for a while, I’d pull her up, and then down she’d go again much to her delight and her mommy’s terror. She likes being upside down. My personal theory is that the extra blood to the brain, carrying extra oxygen, is going to make her even more intelligent than she already is.

As if that wasn’t enough, after pulling herself up on the little chairs, she proceeded to take a few little steps of her own, walking down the line of chairs in search of the camera. She made her way down, got the camera, and gave it a nice little bang like she does all her other toys. She even tried to pull herself up onto the chairs (no success fortunately). I am going to be doing nonstop baby proofing in between trips I think.

Today the little Ava wanted to play, crawl, climb, and explore until she tired herself out. Then she was very content to relax in her mother’s arms.

The thought of leaving her (which is 4 days away!) is getting even more unpleasant to think about. Hopefully we will only have a few weeks between though, and she will be home and meeting all of you soon.

After our visit this morning, we went to the museum we discovered on a long walk yesterday. The displays were in Russian and Kazakh mostly, but there were a few captions in English so we learned a little. It was a very interesting place though. I took a few pictures, then got yelled at, so we don’t have much to show for it except the few shots we got. Then we went to a place in the City Mall that serves brewed coffee!!! I got an espresso drink and was very very happy. We have no idea what Amber got, because it wasn’t what she ordered, but it was good too.

Lastly, our Ava discovered sticking her tongue out.


Thursday, October 25, 2007

Not Much to Report

Today was a holiday, Republic Day, so we did not have our visit with Ava. But because we had today off we get to visit her Sunday. We just hung around the apartment then went for a 2 hour walk. We decided to walk down some streets we hadn’t been on before. We found a museum that was closed and that’s about all. It started to snow and was very cold out. Then we got together with the other families and just relaxed for a couple of hours. That’s about all for today. Hope we will have a more interesting post for you tomorrow!

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Happy Girl (And Parents)

Ava was so happy today! She was all smiles most of the morning! We absolutely LOVED that!! Of course we couldn’t get many pictures of her smiling but we enjoyed it! We dressed her in an ‘I love daddy’ shirt (we need an ‘I love mommy’ one next) and some blue pants!




We can change her but then we have to put her original clothes back on when we give her back. She is very squirmy but seems to like us fussing with her and changing her, if it doesn’t interfere with chewing on something. Her clothes she has on are usually cute though. We found out nap time is 11:00am and we can see her getting tired at that time, rubbing her eyes and yawning. We love the yawns! She also didn’t want to be put down, every time I put her down she whimpered until I picked her up again. I know I’m creating a monster! Also, today it is cold and snowing very lightly today. But it’s mostly melting as it hits the ground.

I wanted to respond to some comments also. Ava liked her snowsuit even though she was making a funny face in the picture. When I held her up in it, everyone was looking at her saying how cute she is and she loved that! She likes attention!! Heather, I wanted to tell you, I would buy the snowsuit for $16! That’s a deal. You can pack it in a space bag to save some space. I love the travel space bags! We brought some 6-9 month clothing and she fits in most good. Some things are a little big. She’s one of the smallest babies we saw. Most of the babies we were shown are probably wearing 9-12 or 12 month clothes.

Here is the video Jason promised. It’s from a few days ago. Look at how high the pants are! That outfit was way too big so they tucked the shirt in as you can see! She’s even cute in that though!

For those travelling soon

So if you are coming to Karaganda soon here are some things that will hopefully be helpful. It is getting cold outside; you will want a hat, scarf, and gloves. It is warm in the apartments. Some have thermostats and valves on the radiators, but ours doesn’t. Windows regulate the temperature for us. The baby house is hot too, so prepare to be warm there. And they want you to take your shoes off, but if you bring slippers or crocs you can wear them inside. Food is good, and not real expensive, though nicer restaurants compare w/ American restaurants. Clothes and nice jewelry is expensive. We’ve been buying 8 liter jugs of bottled water for about $1.40 US and staying healthy doing so. It looks like the water and electricity issues are behind us now, but a small flashlight is not a bad idea, and you should be prepared for slightly brown hot water. We have been told that it’s just rust in the water though. Air Astana for flights from Almaty to Karaganda will charge you for checked baggage in excess of 44lb per person. I want to say the overage is about $1.50 per pound above that if I remember correctly. We paid.

Bring gifts from home if you can, as that type of thing is definitely cheaper there. Watches, wallets, costume jewelry, ect that you can get for $10-$15 are more like $20-$3o here! Baby clothes and toys are a lot more expensive, no sales racks here (where we are anyway)! We bought one long sleeve onesie for $10. Also, snow suits are about $40 and higher. If you are in an apartment, pretty much everything you need is walking distance… groceries, souvenirs, mall, restaurants, park, etc. As for hotels, we haven’t been able to get a lot of info on them. I guess there are 2 that people will stay at. One is kind of isolated, the other not so much, but we are fairly sure that you control your own heat there at least. Regular brand cleaning supplies (Tide laundry soap, ect.), toiletries (Old Spice deodorant, Pantene shampoo, ect), and soft TP, tissues and paper towels are easy to get at the grocery we went to, and for about the same price as home as well.

There are things you can’t get. Peanut butter for one. Things do change quickly and you have to just kind of roll with it. We didn’t expect our visits to be cut in half, but they were, and new families are experiencing the same thing so far. Most people will work with you if you don’t speak Russian, but practice charades, and get used to pointing and indicating quantities with your fingers. Also, a phrase book is wonderful for pointing to words and numbers. Be prepared for some people to be less than happy to be talking to foreigners. This has been the exception rather than the rule for us though. Some people just laugh, but most people are very nice – especially when you are buying from them. You will find a fair amount of people speak English somewhat though, and it is remarkable how wonderful that feels! Books, DVD’s, playing cards, are all good too, because the only thing we’ve found in English on TV is a brief CaspioNet Newscast from 9-10 AM And some music videos. Most channels are in Russian or overdubbed, and there are no subtitles.

Also, if you want to fit in here wear nice clothes! People dress nice here and most women have nice high heel boots and pretty coats, hats, gloves and scarves. We feel like bums walking around town because we brought more casual, comfortable clothes. Coats are very expensive here too so I would bring one if possible. And lastly, dial-up is slow (in case you’ve forgotten), and you use phone cards for it. The cost has been about $1.25/hour.

More Ava content - including a video - coming soon!

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Fashion Show

Yesterday we finished up shopping for the baby bag we need to leave for the escort who will bring Ava to Almaty to meet us on our second trip. They take them from Karaganda to Almaty via train, which is something like a 16 hour trip, so it’s about 2 days worth of clothes, plus a snowsuit that we have to pack. Fortunately Amber brought stuff from home, so we didn’t have to buy much. The baby clothes we found here aren’t real cheap. So today she got to try her modeling career. First, the snowsuit. She actually seemed to like it even though it’s a bit too big for her

Next we had to take her layers off to try on the next outfits, so here are her adorable little baby legs.

Next we have a nice yellow ensemble that was a very sweet gift from some very nice people. Ava liked it so much she decided to applaud herself.

Lastly we see a very cute pink outfit that her mother picked out for her. What a beauty.

She squirmed a little bit at being changed so much, but she did seem to enjoy the attention quite a bit too. It was a pretty quiet visit after the excitement of clothes. Her one tooth is coming in very well, and it looks like more will be here shortly. She actually took a few sort-of-steps while holding herself up on the small chairs in the room! All in the name of getting to a toy so she can hear the kind of noise it makes when you bang it on something. I am hoping I have a drummer in the family. We actually got a pretty nice shot of us with the other families we’ve been traveling with. So here’s Christine and Oliver (8 months), Jason & Ella (2 yrs - adopted last year), Amber and Ava, Rich, and Beth and Julia (almost 7 months).

Monday, October 22, 2007

What a smile

Our little one had quite the smile today once we went in to her room this morning and she saw Amber. Then she looked for me, saw me, smiled again, and looked very contented. We had a nice visit with her, but she was a little tired. Apparently 11 AM is her normal nap time, so she was pretty calm. She was very happy to be held today. She refuses to fall asleep in the play room as there is just too much going on. I’ve decided that Oliver is her nemesis (or boyfriend). If he has a toy, she wants it and vice versa. They are from the same room, so they are familiar with each other and are only 2 weeks apart in age. Watching her interact with the other little ones is really cute. Her eyes still follow us around the room. It’s neat that in the brief minutes we have with her and with the normal chaos of the playroom, she still picks out her mommy and daddy quite well. Once we are both near her, she tends to look around more.

There were some new French families last week and a new Spanish family today. The new Spanish family adopted one of our favorite little guys from Ava’s room. He would always come over in his walker and watch us feed Ava. It is great to see all the babies finding their families. We found out today too that we won’t see Ava on Thursday, as it’s a holiday, but instead we get to see her on Sunday, so it evens out. It’s pretty hard to believe that in 8 days we’ll be in court and then boarding Air Astana for the start of our trip home.

The weather’s gotten a little colder with highs in the 40’s and it’s been overcast for a few days. We have been precipitation free except for a few sprinkles of rain, though the forecast is predicting snow. Perhaps the weathermen here are as bad as the weathermen at home? Time will tell. Despite the cold outside, our apartment is at a steady 80 degrees. The heat is on (city controlled steam radiators), and we can find no way of regulating it. So our windows are open as much as possible to keep it reasonable.

Here’s the Ava pictures…



That's Oliver reaching for the toy Ava has. Just another day of fun!!

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Sunday in Kaz

Today is our day without Ava. We were very lazy today, just read, slept, ate and watched TV until it was time to go to the circus at 3:30. The circus had acrobats, trapeze artists, animal shows and a clown. It was a lot of fun! It was nice to have something fun to do instead of sitting around the house. We went to dinner at a Turkish restaurant after and Jason got what he thought was beef but it was lamb and it was the worst lamb we’ve ever tried. He couldn’t eat it and he can eat just about anything! While I’m on the subject of food, we found mini pizzas at the store yesterday and they were really good. Also, the store has Lays potato chips, Coke, Pepsi, Sprite and Cadburys Chocolate. No ice cream at the store but they have street venders that sell Good-Humor type bars. Jason has had a few of the local beers and he thought they were pretty good.
Yesterday our visit with Ava went good but it was way to short as usual. She really is not smiley all the time; we just like to post those pictures because they are our favorites. She makes us work hard to get those laughs and smiles. Most of the time she wants to crawl, especially since she is good at it now. Also, she wants to play with the toys we bring and find things to pull herself up on. She does like us to walk around holding her too, which we love, of course.
We also wanted to thank everyone for the wonderful comments, we love to check the blog to see if we’ve gotten more! It makes us happy to know that people are following along in this adventure with us! Here are a few pictures from yesterdays visit.


Saturday, October 20, 2007

Our precious little visits

So when we arrive at the baby house and make our way to Ava’s room, we usually find her in a big play crib or in a walker. She sees whichever one of us walks in first (we try to take turns), then looks over our shoulder for the other one of us, and then gets this ‘they’re back again?!’ sort of look on her face, then we pick her up and she is all smiles. I really wish we had the 2 visits a day as I think she would get to know us better, but hopefully this will make our few weeks away from her less traumatic. The other families we are with adopted from Kazakhstan and Azerbaijan before so they’ve been very helpful to us new parents. They say that the babies really start to bond when you get them out of the orphanage and you are their sole caretaker since they’ve never seen one person for that long of a stretch before. The 30 hour trip home helps especially.

Since we only have the one visit, we have a lot of downtime now. We spend our days wandering the streets of Karaganda, taking it all in. When we’re at the apartment we read, watch TV in a foreign language, or watch DVD’s (though we’ve only watched two so far). Dishes, laundry, and grocery shopping all take up time too. It seems like we are both sleeping more too, perhaps just because we can, or maybe just because we’re bored.

We found out today that the gifts we bought for a lot of the people we are helping here were good. They got the stamp of approval which is a big relief. We also found out a little bit more about our court date. We will go to court on the 30th and the local Ministry of Education a few days before, and get interviewed by both to make it official. We’ve been told the court visit should only take 15 minutes or so, and the MOE about the same I think. I found out a little bit more about what we have to talk about too. Things like why we are adopting, do I make enough money, do we own a house, will Ava have her own room etc. will be asked. Then Larissa said that we were an ‘easy case’, not much to worry about, which made us both feel a lot better. I guess families that have a lot of kids already, or don’t own a house have to answer more questions. As long as they don’t look at Shawn’s comments on the blog, we should be fine.

The other day we went around the corner from our apartment to the central park of the city, which was HUGE, complete with a pond, amusement park rides, little kid play houses, and interesting statues. It was very nice and a lot of people were walking around and enjoying the day, complete with their coats on in the 65 degree weather. I got some strange looks for not having a jacket on and (gasp) a short sleeve shirt! We took about 100 pictures in the park alone.

Today we will go grocery shopping, rest, spend our precious 2 hours with Ava, eat dinner and call it a day. Here’s some more Ava pictures from yesterdays visit.






Friday, October 19, 2007

Our Life in Kazakhstan

We are really looking forward to having Ava with us full time! We are with her so little, then we have to share her with each other too! She really likes to be held but when we hold her she looks around at everything instead of us. There is usually a lot of noise and activity in the room for her to watch though. I think she feels secure when we hold her. Sometimes she crawls over to me, puts her little hand on my leg and looks up at me and when I pick her up she smiles. She already knows how to get what she wants! We also discovered that she is ticklish on her sides. She laughed so hard when I tickled her! We also noticed she has a little dimple on her cheek when she smiles really big.
As Jason said we’ve had power outages. Yesterday it was out for about 5 hours. There’s not much to do here as it is but when the powers out there’s even less. We ended up walking for a few hours and looking in shops along the way. We found an adorable traditional dress for Ava. We had to buy it!
The heat is now on for the city, our apartment doesn’t have a thermostat so it is very hot! We have to open up windows because it is that warm. I guess we didn’t need to pack the long-underwear.
Last night we went out to dinner at a place called Johnny Walker’s Pub. The waitresses were dressed in kilts and matching hats. They had American food and an English menu. The English was written funny and spelled wrong but at least we knew what we were ordering. The food was great, I got pizza and Jason got T-bon (that’s the way it was spelled) steak with French fries. I even liked his steak and I’m not a big steak eater! After dinner we walked home and in our courtyard behind the building there were men dressed in military-like outfits patrolling the area. I’m guessing they must do this every night. We were talking and laughing and one guard came up to us and started saying something in Russian. We tried saying we don’t understand in Russian (the one phrase we actually know) and he kept on saying something in Russian. Then he held out his hand and realized he was saying tenge (Kazak currency) and dollar! We just kept on saying we don’t understand even though we did at that point! We acted dumb and he finally looked annoyed and walked away. I can’t believe that he thought we would just hand him money like that!
One more thing: Tazsa, I wanted to tell you that Jason probably isn’t going to allow any boys near Ava for at least 30years! Sorry Noah!

Ava and her friends Julia and Oliver

The Dress we bought

Notice what she is wearing? A Bambi outfit!!
Ticklish Girl!



See the dimple?

Thursday, October 18, 2007

More from the Central Asia Standard Time Zone

Sorry this post took so long. We’ve had electricity and internet access issues… Here’s a shot at a few more Ava pictures since blogger wouldn't work last time.





When we got there yesterday the caretakers seemed to be upset with us and the other families we are with for not being there in the morning. Apparently it never got relayed to them that they cut our visits in half. We were all hoping that they would let us go back to the twice a day visits, but sadly they didn’t. At least the caretakers know why now. Ava also had a little bump on her head from taking a fall in the crib. I guess she was pulling herself up in her crib, took a tumble and hit her head on a rail. It didn’t seem to be bothering her though, which is good. She got her passport pictures taken today too! It kind of makes it a little more real that soon she will be all ours and back home with the largest extended family ever. I keep wondering what her personality will be like. She’s a very determined and persistent little girl already, but she’s also very even tempered. She’s perfect in every way.

The weather has been great. It’s been sunny every day but one, with temperatures in the 50’s. It had to be in the 60’s the last few days. Everybody still wears coats and jackets though, and the babies that we see on the street look to be covered in 8-10 inches of padding in the form of snowsuits, mittens, hats, scarves, etc regardless of the temperature. I guess they got some snow and freezing rain a few weeks ago, but so far so good for us. We still have a while to go though. Apparently it gets to -30 C in the winter too. I am glad we aren’t here in January!

The food is actually really good. Most is comparable and their juice, milk, and corn flakes are much better than the US. In fact all of the families agree on this. I’ve really enjoyed everything I’ve eaten. Shocking isn’t it? Feel free to make food related jokes at my expense. They have these little meat pies that are phylo dough with meat, chicken, or veggies inside. There is a little stand in front of our apt that sells them, and though they laugh at my Russian, they sell them to us and they are delicious. Two for less than a dollar! I also had beef stroganoff for dinner the other night at a restaurant, and it was awesome. Their salads aren’t particularly lettuce based – more a mixed vegetable thing. We bought some of what we thought was spinach, but it turned out to be very bitter greens. No horse meat yet, but I’ve been promised the opportunity to try some.

We even have a cleaning lady and her name isn’t Amber (HAHAHAHAHA). Thanks, I’ll be here all week. Her name is Luta and she comes on Tuesday and Saturday. I will say that my little Rough Guide Russian Phrasebook has been extremely helpful. Along with the pronunciations of words, it has them written in Russian too, which lets me just point at a page and let them point back or read what I mean. Also, when the store clerks see me fingering through it, I think it gives them a chance to figure out how to talk to the Americans.

We can’t believe we’ve been here a week already and have 2 more weeks to go!

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Sorry to Keep the Fans Waiting!!

I know the Ava fans are anxious! But our visits are at 4pm-6pm and we were just tired when we got home! Sorry! No we don’t get longer visits, just two hour a day. Ava was feeling better today, her nose wasn’t as red and she was more active. Jason thinks we have a tomboy on our hands because she loves loud toys and she played with a little ball today. So I think I’ll have to dress her up now while I have the chance! We fed her (rice cereal & apple juice) this afternoon so of course she ended up wet from drinking out of a cup! So when we got her back to the play room I took off her outer shirt and we got to see her cute arms! We are seeing our baby one piece at a time! Her elbows have little dimples! So cute!! Then they gave us another shirt to put on her. You would never know it's about 80 degrees in there by the way the babies dress! I can't post any pictures because Blogger isn't letting me upload them!! I guess I'll try later.

Monday, October 15, 2007

Baby News

Today we found out that we only get to have one visit a day with Ava instead of two from now on. There are a lot of other families that are coming in and the orphanage doesn't have enough room for everyone to have two visits a day. We are very sad about this but maybe it's better that she doesn't get too attached to us before we have to leave. We are very attached to her though, so it's going to be hard!!
On a happier note, Ava cut her first tooth today!! We were so excited to see a tiny bit of white tooth on her bottom gums! She was drooling much more today because of it.
The other amazing thing she did was, she pulled herself up to standing by holding on to a kid size chair! All by herself too! We were clearly awed by her talents! She is very strong for being so small!
Today's visits were kind of laid back with her. She still has a cold and her nose was more red today. Also, since she is teething she wasn't as active. Also, the play room is so hot and they dress the babies in at least two layers, sometimes three with thick booties. Ava was sweating so much her head was wet! Jason was blowing on her head to cool her off and she loved it! I'll put the picture below.
We walked to some souvenir shops this afternoon and we wanted to buy everything! We are going to bring back some nice things, especially for Ava. Then we went out to dinner at the same restaurant as before.
That's about all for today.
First Tooth

Clapping!


Crawling!


Standing on her own!


I love her neck rolls!

Sunday, October 14, 2007

One Smart Baby

I wanted to brag about Ava’s development. The day we first met her we tried to sit her up but she couldn’t sit on her own for more than 2 seconds without toppling over. Now she is sitting up for over 10 seconds at a time! Also, she was just scooting, trying to crawl when we met her and now she is really crawling! Also, I was clapping her little hands together yesterday and when stopped she kept on clapping by herself. She looked at her hands in amazement. It was so cute! Also, she was on the floor in front of me and wanted to be picked up but I waited to see what she would do and she climbed up on me! She pulled herself up almost all the way (then I helped some). See the pictures of her on top of me for evidence! We will have more pictures tomorrow!

I wanted to respond to Debbie and Harm’s comment. We can’t believe she wasn’t taken before either, but we know she was meant to be ours! We did meet the babies together with two other families. They brought the babies in for everyone to see. When I first saw Ava I thought she was so pretty and sweet that I absolutely hogged her. The other families looked at her also but we spent the most time with her, I didn’t want anyone else to want her! We also held the twins and a few other babies but I knew she was the one right away! It seems like each baby is with the perfect parents for them! The other Spanish families have been here for a month and their babies are perfect for them too. All of them are loved to pieces!

A little more about Karaganda

So first to respond to some comments. The orphanage we are in is named Shapagat. This is the Kazakh name for the Mylutka orphanage. Mylutka is the Russian name for it. I’m sure I’m butchering the spelling, though. Ava’s middle name is pronounced uh-seel in case you are curious. Also, we’ve deleted a few comments that had our last name in it. As hard as it is to believe with all the info we’re posting, we are trying to maintain a little bit of anonymity. So please don’t be offended if your post got the axe. Olga verified for me we are in a good neighborhood, in almost the center of town. In fact she said that there is really only one district where you wouldn’t want to walk at night. The other 2 American families we came with are in the same cluster of buildings that we are in, and I believe the 3 Spanish families are too. Our clothes dryer doesn’t so much dry the clothes as it does make it really hot and wet, so we have clothes hanging out to dry like a regular Kazakh family.

The baby house itself is wonderful. It is amazingly clean. The room that Ava is in has 10 cribs, an attached little kitchen, a bathroom with 4 or 5 sinks, and an attached playroom. We always see at least 2 caregivers in there, who seem to truly care about the babies. There are at least 6 other clusters of rooms that have a similar set up with groups of babies or toddlers. They don’t have children older than 5. At that age they go to another orphanage until they are 16 or 17. There is clean laundry drying everywhere, but I imagine that helps them maintain the high standard of cleanliness. You smell no dirty diapers anywhere. It’s almost odorless except for baby wipes and food (when it’s cooking). The standard of care they get there is excellent and helps us feel a little better about leaving her for a few weeks (though I’m already dreading that day). One day when we went to our play room, there was a group of kids from 2-4ish leaving the room. They were all so beautiful. I wish we could take all of them home. They all seemed happy though, which was nice. I really cannot say enough good things about the baby house. They do maintain a wonderful standard of care.

We’ve fed our Ava 4 times now. She gets a big bowl of baby rice cereal with little bits of bread mixed in at times. Then she gets formula or tea that seems to have honey or sugar in it. She loves to eat. We’re getting better at helping her too. I think she eats faster than me! And with the tea she drinks, she’s already imitating her daddy’s caffeine addiction.

We got some tepid water today in the shower. It was clear too! It was very exciting. I already miss taking a hot shower. I think the best we will do is a warm one. The shower isn’t really a shower either. It is a tub with a hand held sprayer, with very minimal water pressure. Attempting to wash up is quite the arduous and chilly task.

The heat still isn’t on, but we have a little electric radiant space heater, and the apartment has actually stayed pretty warm. Yesterday I videoed the drive to the baby house, as well as us going to Ava’s room, and then taped the drive back. The driver actually drove more reservedly than he had been though. No near death experiences to record at all. I think he was doing it so I could get steadier film. His name is Kairat and he’s a very nice guy and has even helped me with some of my Russian. After recording, Amber and I were wondering if anyone else is going to find things like the drive as interesting as we do. I’m sure Ava will when she gets older though, and that’s who this is all about.

Then today since we can’t see our Ava (much sadness), we went sightseeing. We actually went all around the city and took about 175 pictures. We went to Maternity House #2 where Ava and Julia were born, and then to Maternity House #4 where Oliver was born. Here’s Ava’s birthplace.


We also saw from a distance the coal mines and a coal factory where they generate the heat and electricity for the city. It was a little hazy so we didn’t get great pictures. We got pictures of their football (soccer) stadium, and we stopped at a Mosque and a Russian Orthodox Church. We then stopped at a Muslim cemetery which was very different from your ordinary American fare. Each structure you see is for a person or 2. The headstones are very ornate, with pictures etched in stone of the deceased; the vegetation is very overgrown and the roads are unmaintained, but some of the structures are made entirely of granite or marble.

We then went to what Olga called the ‘fake lake’. It is a lake on the edge of the city which is actually a filled in coal strip mine. If I understood right, they use it for their steam heat. Most of their water comes from underground aquifers as it is very dry here.

Sorry for the low Ava content of my post. Amber will be doing one of these later, and I’m just trying to keep my mind off of my baby since I can’t see her today.

Hit Counter

Amazing Counters